Why I'm Leaving Social Media Today

One of my favorite songs is the one by Roy Orbison that goes "in the real world, there are things that we can't change /and endings come to us in ways that we can't rearrange..."  And so it is with Social Media Day.  I am bowing out today as chief content officer or what we now colloquially call "editor" and leaving the company.   Two years of 10 to 14 hour days overseeing the flow of material on six very active web sites is too much for a man with a Medicaid card.  I'm tired and my main focus right now is the health of my wife of 44 years who is very ill and not going to get better.  Any time not spent caring for her is time lost in my view. 

I'm very proud of what we have achieved since we began this little experiment.  SMT has become one of the best-read and most-respected channels for social media on the web.  My long-time friend, collaborator and co-founder Robin Carey has done a superb job of turning the SMT vision into a business.  In the midst of a recession and before many marketing departments had ever heard of social media, she convinced major companies like SAP, Oracle, Teradata and Siemens to give us a shot.  That is remarkable and a tribute to her dedication, hard work, and tenacity.  Nobody does it better.

One of our most important achievements, I believe, is that we have demonstrated that "aggregation" is not a dirty word.  We have helped many of the bloggers who share their content with us reach thousands of readers they would otherwise have missed.  We have shown there is value in "total individual reach" that transcends page rank and visitor stats.  I hope someone comes up soon with a better tool for measuring it.  

Robin has put together an incredible team and I will miss working with them, especially the "kids" Evan Cook and Caitlin Hinrichs, both of whom graduated from college in the past couple of years.  Evan is the total package, think Steven Spielberg before Jaws, and is a young man to watch.  Three years from now, look for Caitlin standing along the sidelines at an NFL game, microphone in hand, interviewing some recently indicted wide receiver.  If all the kids coming into the workforce now are like them, the country has a brighter future than I sometimes think.  (I won't miss our content managers Eric Ehrmann and Brian Roger; they have been my friends for 40 years and always will be.)

My personal thanks to all of you who are so generous in sharing your posts with us--the SMT blogger network for all our sites is now well over 600 contributors and growing daily. I want to acknowledge also my gratitude to George Athannassov, head of WordFrame, the web publishing platform we use for our sites, for giving me the software to build Social Media Today originally and hosting it in the days before we could afford to pay.

I'm not going away entirely--just scaling back.  You can follow my adventures  @jbowles or reach me via e-mail here.   Just to keep my chops up I built and just launched a  new little web site called The Social Mobilist.  The paint is still drying but drop by.

And, hey, we'll always have Paris.


The Death of a Legend

I learned this morning that an old friend had died early Tuesday in Phoenix. Prostate cancer. At my age and that of my peers this is not an unknown occurrence but Robert was my closest friend and confidant for nearly 25 years and we had many great, and often sordid, adventures together.  I stopped speaking to him in 1994 when I realized that the only way I was going to ever stop being a crazy, high-functioning out-of-control drunk was to stop hanging out with other crazy, high-functioning out-of-control drunks. It wasn't an easy decision. One of the great secrets of life that few women understand is that men--especially hetrosexual men--love each other best.  Robert was a larger than life character, a one-off as they say in England. Good or bad, no one who ever met him ever forgot the experience.  The only time I ever saw him tongue-tied was one night in a jazz club when Gerry Mulligan spontaneously sat down at our table.  He was brilliant and funny and charming; his tongue was a lethal weapon  In business, he would just as quickly screw his friends as strangers which is to say he was a typical entreprenur.  He was also a terrible misogynist and user of women--his most unttractive trait.  But, as a drinking buddy and comrade in adventure, there was none better.  I can see him now racing toward across the lobby of the Munich airport, where he was supposed to have met me four hours earlier, chomping on one of those cheap cigarillos he favored, screaming at the top of his lungs "Mein freund, mein freund" as everyone in the place turned to stare.  Godspeed, mein freund.  Godspeed.

Best Bits from Today's Blogs

China and India may be well on their way to dominating the voice world with billions of users, but when it comes to mobile data, U.S. companies are leading the charge, showing strong growth both in terms of overall traffic and revenue...(Om Malik)


There are many exciting ways to invest in the demise of America, it’s why I invest in other currencies and own some metal and commodity stocks, but it’s very crowded. It’s very noisy at the public stock market level. Furthermore, I prefer to invest the bulk of my time and money in growth areas that I understand from the get go and areas that I can be passionately knowledgeable.  (Howard Lindzon)


I could rewrite my own history backwards to make it all seem like it had been planned, but it wasn’t. Going from hippy to business planner to entrepreneur, I tripped over the most important right decisions, accidentally. It was a lot like a shiny metal ball bouncing around in a pinball machine, hitting obstacles and changing directions. Sometimes I made the wrong decisions and got the right results. Go figure.  (Tim Berry)


I think ImADickYaHeard should team up with Momar "Crazy Legs" GitOffMe.  Mahmoud and Momar are both in New York toward the end of this week to catch some of the fall runway shows (and perhaps swing by the UN, if there's time). Two wild and (literally) crazy guys.  Momar could give the hirsuted one some fashion tips ahead of their arrival (get him off Mr. Blackwell's shit list, if not the rest of civilization) (Steve Buzzard)

 

Ross Dawson's Updated Social Media Strategy Framework

Ross Dawson has updated his Social Media Strategy Framework to provide a better explanation of its structure. The left side shows the three steps in process of Engagement; the right side shows the three steps in Strategy Development.   (Source)

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Facebook's Excellent Privacy Invasion Adventures

You don't have to be a believer in wacko conspiracy theories to suspect that Big Brother really is watching you.  From the NSA to Walmart and the Boy Scouts of America, the illusive all-powerful combine we call THEY has taken an unhealthy interest in our daily habits.  Where we go, what we eat, who we see, what we do--massive amounts of this kind of information is collected electronically every day and entered into gigantic data warehouses where it can be mined and analyzed to predict almost anything, from whether we are the kind of person who might buy Whitney's latest comeback CD to a person likely to sign up for a terrorist training camp in Pakistan.  

More and more, our lives have become a series of binary numbers protected only by the limitations of the software (which is getting smarter all the time) and the human beings (who don't appear to be) that try to make sense of it.  The dimensions to which all this intrudes on our daily socialization is unclear but my sense is that Donald Rumsfeld was right, at least about one thing: we really don't know what we don't know.

Not all of this is inherently evil, of course.  Since 9/11 many Americans, I suspect, have become more tolerant of government intrusion into their privacy.  We want our government to find and stop terrorists before they can act and so we overlook the fact that in order to do that our intelligence agents might have to listen to our conversations, too. Call your cousin in Pakistan four times in a week and start looking for the white delivery vans parked out front.  But, my suspicion is that the government is now going well beyond the legal limits and that, inevitably, since there are human beings involved, serious mistakes will be made that cause rethinking of the program.   

Although corporations are bound by fairly stringent rules about what information about individuals they can and cannot collect, they are circumspect about their CRM and data mining activities for both competitive reasons and, frankly, because it would probably scare the hell out of a lot of customers to be told exactly how much information the company has about them and what they might do with it.

A case study in how to do it wrong is Facebook which announced on Friday that it settled the class action challenging its now infamous "Beacon" advertising program.  You remember Beacon.   A couple of years ago Mark Zuckerberg, or somebody whose opinion he trusted, came up with a bright idea:  Facebook would track its users' online purchases, share that information with its partner retailers, and post the information to their friends who might just buy the same thing. It didn't seem to occur to anyone that maybe some users didn't want the fact that they had bought or rented the video Debbie Does Dallas to appear in their "news feed. In one of the more egregious examples, a man's wife found out that he sent flowers to a girlfriend.  This is what happens when decisions are made by monastic geeks who are too young to remember the Robert Bork and Clarence Thomas hearings.   Facebook quickly backed down but not before several class action lawsuits were filed--one of which is the one that was settled on Friday.  

As part of a $9.5 million settlement, Facebook is setting up a privacy foundation, funded with whatever is left over after the lawyers get their cut (which could be up to one-third of the settlement).   According to the settlement, the purpose of the foundation is to educate "users, regulators, and enterprises regarding critical issues relating to protection of identity and personal information online through user control, and to protect users from online threats."

A wrist slap, this time, but you can bet this is not the end of privacy problems for the big social networks.  Two MIT graduate students opened up a whole new can of worms last week when they announced  that they could identify who is gay on Facebook simply by looking at their online "friends" and using a software program that looks at the gender and sexuality of a person’s friends and, using statistical analysis, makes a prediction.  The study doesn't seem to have been all that scientifically rigorous but it is troubling and raises ethical and legal questions about the big push to mine social networks for "unstructured data" which is another way of saying information that you've provided about yourself without knowing you've done so.  This goes beyond the mere connecting of dots--if you bought this you will like this--and gets into a world of "inference' and undefined legal and ethical territory.

Winston Smith, Room 101, stat.

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Jerry Bowles co-founded the popular blogging community Social Media Today and is chief content officer of several online communities built and managed by Social Media Today LLC for corporations like SAP, Teradata, Oracle, and Siemens. He also founded and contributes to Sequenza21, a top contemporary classical music site.

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